Ghosted— Am I Doing This Right?

Ya girl got ghosted. And fun fact: it sucks. Honestly, though, I think being mercilessly ghosted is a twenty-something rite of passage. So I can check that off the list. I should also make it clear; I have a very generous definition of ghosting. If we have a bad first (or second) date, I don’t…

The Year of WTF —Am I Doing This Right?

The job search has gotten me down. Like way down. Like I don’t know if I want to cry or throw up, down. Currently, I’m doing neither. I’m just trying to avoid my emotions and answer the one question I can’t get out of my mind: “what the fuck?” Luckily, I know a lot of…

Hot Dogs (Yes, Hot Dogs) —Am I Doing This Right?

I often wonder how many miles I’ve clocked on highways. When I was a baby my dad lived 100 miles away, taking care of his cancer-ridden father. My mom and her sisters loved a good family road trip. I went to college just far enough way to be out of state, but not so far…